dotfrank wrote:
Miriram/Mellie was confused. No reason to forgive Judith - she was a terrible person! And she had NOT become what she despised most. Miriam's newly opened heart is going to take some adjusting to for her. She loves sweeping gestures - forgive everyone! Condemn everyone! Love everyone! Well, Miss Mellie shoulda figured it would be a one day, one incident at a time kinda thing. But that's why she has Kevin, Harrison and her mom - to temper her decisions. WE need friends. We all do.
Amen to friends! They are often your famiy. And you do allow them the right to temper your judgments with good advice that may differ from yours, but you know they're not being judgmental of you, they're just being a good caring friend looking out for you when at times you may be headed down a dangerous path, emotionally or otherwise. Actually, sometimes, I think we allow our friends more freedom to speak to us on such matters than we do our families. I love my friends, even when we are mad at each other at times lol
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vivico1 wrote:
Wrighty wrote:
dotfrank wrote:
Miriram/Mellie was confused. No reason to forgive Judith - she was a terrible person! And she had NOT become what she despised most. Miriam's newly opened heart is going to take some adjusting to for her. She loves sweeping gestures - forgive everyone! Condemn everyone! Love everyone! Well, Miss Mellie shoulda figured it would be a one day, one incident at a time kinda thing. But that's why she has Kevin, Harrison and her mom - to temper her decisions. WE need friends. We all do.
Miriam was very gracious to Judith considering all of the crap she went through during the wedding. Judith was very selfish as usual but Miriam put her son's needs first and worked hard to make it a wonderful occasion. That would have been so hard to do.
That really showed some personal growth!
It's a good thing it was a book because Judith got a taste of what she deserved and so did Charles. They needed to be embarrassed in public. Dot was too nice to them though for all they had put Miriam through. ( It's those southern manners Dot!
)I did like the phone conversation on pg 328-329. Go Miriam!
kiakar wrote:
Wrighty wrote:
dotfrank wrote:
Miriram/Mellie was confused. No reason to forgive Judith - she was a terrible person! And she had NOT become what she despised most. Miriam's newly opened heart is going to take some adjusting to for her. She loves sweeping gestures - forgive everyone! Condemn everyone! Love everyone! Well, Miss Mellie shoulda figured it would be a one day, one incident at a time kinda thing. But that's why she has Kevin, Harrison and her mom - to temper her decisions. WE need friends. We all do.
Miriam was very gracious to Judith considering all of the crap she went through during the wedding. Judith was very selfish as usual but Miriam put her son's needs first and worked hard to make it a wonderful occasion. That would have been so hard to do.
Yes, I was certainly saying to myself, " Tell the creep to go blow her face off) I know, terrible me. hehehe
Blow her face off??? MAN you do have a dark side kiakar lol. geessh!
j/k....but i will be keeping an eye on you!
vivico1 wrote:
kiakar wrote:
Wrighty wrote:
dotfrank wrote:
Miriram/Mellie was confused. No reason to forgive Judith - she was a terrible person! And she had NOT become what she despised most. Miriam's newly opened heart is going to take some adjusting to for her. She loves sweeping gestures - forgive everyone! Condemn everyone! Love everyone! Well, Miss Mellie shoulda figured it would be a one day, one incident at a time kinda thing. But that's why she has Kevin, Harrison and her mom - to temper her decisions. WE need friends. We all do.
Miriam was very gracious to Judith considering all of the crap she went through during the wedding. Judith was very selfish as usual but Miriam put her son's needs first and worked hard to make it a wonderful occasion. That would have been so hard to do.
Yes, I was certainly saying to myself, " Tell the creep to go blow her face off) I know, terrible me. hehehe
Blow her face off??? MAN you do have a dark side kiakar lol. geessh!
Yea; Viv, but watch out for your own bright lights! hehehehe
vivico1 wrote:
kiakar wrote:
Yes, I was certainly saying to myself, " Tell the creep to go blow her face off) I know, terrible me. hehehe
Blow her face off??? MAN you do have a dark side kiakar lol. geessh!
No kidding! That's scary Kiakar but I know it must be the late hour because you really have a heart of "gold".
Message Edited by Wrighty on 07-25-2007 02:17 AM
Wrighty wrote:
vivico1 wrote:
kiakar wrote:
Yes, I was certainly saying to myself, " Tell the creep to go blow her face off) I know, terrible me. hehehe
Blow her face off??? MAN you do have a dark side kiakar lol. geessh!
No kidding! That's scary Kiakar but I know it must be the late hour because you really have a heart of "gold".
Message Edited by Wrighty on 07-25-2007 02:17 AM
center filled too huh wrighty hehe
Wrighty wrote:
vivico1 wrote:
kiakar wrote:
Yes, I was certainly saying to myself, " Tell the creep to go blow her face off) I know, terrible me. hehehe
Blow her face off??? MAN you do have a dark side kiakar lol. geessh!
No kidding! That's scary Kiakar but I know it must be the late hour because you really have a heart of "gold".
Message Edited by Wrighty on 07-25-2007 02:17 AM
Well, you know, Wrighty, you know what our buddy says about me; "I have a dark side" hehehehe
