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11-12-2008 01:26 PM
And due to the parents using drugs, it could mean he had more of an addictive personsnility trait also. And the fact the drugs were always there at his home. I can well see the reasons he became addictive. Not feeling complete love from his parents and then treated aloof by Joel and spoiled by Audrey.
lamorgan wrote:Lenny seems to have been pulled in opposite directions his entire life.
Joel was so hard-core with him. Constantly riding him for every little thing.
Audrey, on the other hand, indulged his every whim.
And his own mother obviously loved him, but couldn't care for him by herself.
His addictions, in this light, is understandable. Add to that the fact that Audrey and Joel obviously never hid their own drug use from the children and you have a combination that screams "junky."
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11-12-2008 04:38 PM
Lenny is a very sad character. He's basically been a ghost or a shadow of a person since the beginning of the book. He is stuck in an adolescent role, powerless, and has very little real substance to offer the world. It's as if his growth as a person has been stunted by the lack of nurturing support. We see him through the eyes of the other characters because he really just exists and floats throughout his existence with no real direction.
I can't help but think that a major contributer to Lenny's personality and poor decisions is his family situation in general. It's basically a direct result of seeing how the rest of his family interacts and reacts to him. I mean, he sees his "sisters" try to make good decisions and be the best they can be; yet even with the best of intentions, they come up short in the eyes of Audrey and Joel, as well as in their views of themselves . As a result, I think Lenny takes the path of least resistance and a "why bother" attitude, since the likely result of any effort on his part is destined to fail by Joel and Audrey's standards....
He's been acclimated to a fear of failure from the moment he became a part of their "family". He's a supposed part of the family, however he is still an outsider on so many levels. (This alone would be enough to give me serious self-esteem issues.) Audrey babies him and it seems to have little to do with motherly insticts, rather it is a power trip for her..and that can't be good for his self-esteem, either. Audrey's treatment speaks volumes about Lenny perhaps feeling he's incapable of acheiving much of anything. He probably believes that there's really no incentive to do anything besides what he's doing now. So why should he put forth any effort at all?
"I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see. " --John Burroughs
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11-12-2008 04:41 PM
kiakar wrote:And due to the parents using drugs, it could mean he had more of an addictive personsnility trait also. And the fact the drugs were always there at his home. I can well see the reasons he became addictive. Not feeling complete love from his parents and then treated aloof by Joel and spoiled by Audrey.
lamorgan wrote:Lenny seems to have been pulled in opposite directions his entire life.
Joel was so hard-core with him. Constantly riding him for every little thing.
Audrey, on the other hand, indulged his every whim.
And his own mother obviously loved him, but couldn't care for him by herself.
His addictions, in this light, is understandable. Add to that the fact that Audrey and Joel obviously never hid their own drug use from the children and you have a combination that screams "junky."
Yes, that's an excellent point. His role models are definitely a major factor.
"I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see. " --John Burroughs
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11-13-2008 08:51 PM
blkeyesuzi wrote:Lenny is a very sad character. He's basically been a ghost or a shadow of a person since the beginning of the book. He is stuck in an adolescent role, powerless, and has very little real substance to offer the world. It's as if his growth as a person has been stunted by the lack of nurturing support. We see him through the eyes of the other characters because he really just exists and floats throughout his existence with no real direction.
I can't help but think that a major contributer to Lenny's personality and poor decisions is his family situation in general. It's basically a direct result of seeing how the rest of his family interacts and reacts to him. I mean, he sees his "sisters" try to make good decisions and be the best they can be; yet even with the best of intentions, they come up short in the eyes of Audrey and Joel, as well as in their views of themselves . As a result, I think Lenny takes the path of least resistance and a "why bother" attitude, since the likely result of any effort on his part is destined to fail by Joel and Audrey's standards....
He's been acclimated to a fear of failure from the moment he became a part of their "family". He's a supposed part of the family, however he is still an outsider on so many levels. (This alone would be enough to give me serious self-esteem issues.) Audrey babies him and it seems to have little to do with motherly insticts, rather it is a power trip for her..and that can't be good for his self-esteem, either. Audrey's treatment speaks volumes about Lenny perhaps feeling he's incapable of acheiving much of anything. He probably believes that there's really no incentive to do anything besides what he's doing now. So why should he put forth any effort at all?
Very true, Suzi. I think it would also have been impossible for Lenny to engage in the kind of social activism that Rosa and, to a lesser degree, Karla emulate, given the profound impact radical politicism has had on his life.
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11-14-2008 03:52 PM
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11-14-2008 05:37 PM
This may sound weird but I thought Lenny was less a victim than Karla. As self-destructive as Lenny's behavior is, he seems content with his choices. I realize that when someone is willfully choosing drug abuse there's obviously some deeper problem going on, but Karla was just so self-consciously allowing herself to be a victim. I wonder how aware Lenny is of his problems or his victimhood?
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11-19-2008 07:59 AM - edited 11-19-2008 08:02 AM
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11-19-2008 08:23 PM
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It is with books as with men; a very small number play a great part.
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11-20-2008 08:43 AM - edited 11-20-2008 08:48 AM
Carmenere_lady wrote:
I hope it is not too late to get your thoughts about this idea. I've been thinking, could Joel also have fathered Lenny? With all of his affairs it seems more than likely that it could be a possibility. I wish I thought to ask Zoe that when I had the chance.
I thought that, too, somewhere in the first half of the book but then not again. I wondered if it was a trace left of something Heller had once had in the story and then took out, or hinted to foreshadow Jamil's paternity? I went back now to see if I could find what gave me the idea and can only point to p 148:
"Yeah, well, it's a big thing, taking on another person's kid," Joel had muttered. He was pulling on his pants at the time, hurrying to get to the police station to see Susan. He glanced at Lenny...
I think his muttering, his rushing, a sense of avoidance/unease made me wonder. And "to see Susan" sounds more personal than lawyerly matters.
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11-21-2008 03:42 PM
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11-22-2008 07:33 PM
nikkid wrote:I enjoyed the character of Lenny. In my opinion, Lenny didn't have much of a belief system at all. Unlike the rest of his family, it seems to me that he just did whatever it was he wanted to and whatever brought him immediate pleasure. This was in stark contrast to the other members of his family who sometimes just thought too much.
Although I did not agree with his personal lifestyle. I did find him to be that character that brought with him a breath of fresh air!
I'm not sure I thought Lenny was a breath of fresh air but I agree that he was the opposite of everyone else in his family. As I read Audrey telling about what her marriage meant to her, I almost thought she put Lenny in the same position. A position of being taken care of. Being taken out of a life going no where and being given a new start. Audrey was trying to do for Lenny what Joey did for her.
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