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readingSLASHwriting007
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Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

I know it was never disclosed in the books, but I am rather curious. At first I thought, Ginny and Harry since James is older than an of Ron and Hermione's children. But, after thinking about I wasn't sure. Perhaps, Ron and Hermione chose to wait to have kids because she was working for the ministry and he was being an Auror or helping George run the joke shop. I could picture Harry and Ginny dating and get to know each other better. However, I feel like Ron and Hermione have been friends for years so they had an advantage. Also, I think they both have had romantic feeling since at least 4th year (some might even argue 2nd) and knew those feeling weren't going anywhere. I guess, to me, it seems Hermione and Ron would be ready to take the step before Harry and Ginny. However, knowing Ron I can picture him being a little hesitant to pop the question. To me, I see evidence to point in both directions.

 

Any thoughts???

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Jules934
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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Well, Hermione did go back to Hogwarts for her 7th year.  I image they waited until  after that. 

I wish we could have seen her graduate.

What  would a magical gradulation be like?  I always thought part of it would be that the graduating class would be taken back across the lake in the boats they arrived in 7 years before.  

 

Maybe Ron met her on the other shore and they were married in ------- hummm ------- would it have been at the Three Broomsticks or at the Hogshead, in front of the fireplace and Ariana's portrait?

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

I think Harry and Ginny got married first so they would never again have to deal with Ron's "What are you doing with my sister?" big brother issues! 

 

Hermione would definitely wait to get married, mostly in hopes that Ron would grow up more.

 

:smileyhappy:

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

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Good point, but I think Ron and Hermione got married first because of signs they showed for each other throughout the series.

 

For example, PoA (Movie): First Care of Magical Creatures class Hagrid wants Harry to appeal to Buckbeak.Harry backs up slowly and steps on a stick. It makes Hermione jump and grab Ron's hand.

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?


sobbydobby wrote:

Good point, but I think Ron and Hermione got married first because of signs they showed for each other throughout the series.

 

For example, PoA (Movie): First Care of Magical Creatures class Hagrid wants Harry to appeal to Buckbeak.Harry backs up slowly and steps on a stick. It makes Hermione jump and grab Ron's hand.


 

So you believe that people who fall in love first get married first?    Even if that were true, we still have the problem of Ron and Hermione not really knowing the extent of their feelings, or revealing their feelings to each other, before Harry and Ginny did.   Harry and Ginny were a "couple" first.    And Ginny had feelings for Harry long before Hermione had feelings for Ron.

 

Does that change your guess at all?  :smileyhappy:

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Not really, but I did think Harry and Ginny got Married first until I realized how widespread Ron and Hermione's relationship was, in the last four books even if they really hadn't dated much throughout them.

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

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 I knew there was more to Hermione/Ron than met the eye when I saw CoS. 

 

When Hermione walked into the End-of-Term feast....and she and Harry hugged but she and Ron, ermmmmm, shook hands  -- I knew it would be them.

 

Anyone think they may have had a double wedding?

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

A double wedding -- yes!  I like that idea. 

 

Aunt Muriel lent the tiara, which Hermione promptly geminus'ed so there would be two of them.  And George dressed up as a flower-girl, just to give the whole ceremony a real serious tone.

 

Also, Hermione put a spell on her marriage certificate so that once Ron signed it, he'd break out in hives that read "stinker" if he ever later fooled around with another woman.  Better than a pre-nup! 

 

:smileyhappy:

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ROTFLMAO!!!!!   You deserve more than 1 laurel for that, but's it's all I can give.

 

I was thinking of Fred for one best man and George for the other, but no one ('cept Molly, maybe,) knew who was which.  Or Harry would be Ron. and Ron would be Harry's.

 

Mr Wealey would walk Ginny down the aisle, of course, but he'd also drag Ron.

 

Dudley could be an usher, and he and Gwarp woulld do splendid jobs of it.  Aunt Petunia would unbend slightly.  Vernon's face would only turn lavender.

 

Thru some fantastic magic, Dumbledore would officiate.  Fawkes would sing. 

 

The Brides and Grooms would depart in a carriage drawn by Buckbeak.

 

....................

 

 

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Psychee said:

 

Also, Hermione put a spell on her marriage certificate so that once Ron signed it, he'd break out in hives that read "stinker" if he ever later fooled around with another woman.  Better than a pre-nup! 

 

 

I soooo agree with that...if only that could happen in real life, so you would know if he cheated :smileyhappy:

 

Anyway, I think Ron/Hermione

 

 

 

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Welcome, Gothprncss!   We're happy to have you with us!

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Sadly, Fred is no longer... 

 

Do you really think that Harry would invite his Muggle relatives?  It's hard to say how they would behave after spending a year with wizards...  But I imagine that George could come up with a really terrific drink that would make them the life of the party whether they wanted to be or not! 

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

You know, it seems like they are all still with us.

 

Yes, I think Harry, being Harry, would invite them.  After all, they are all the family he has, and Dud did see things thru at the end.

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

He'd invite them, but they wouldn't come. 

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

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In DH, Dudley showed signs of growing a brain.......I think he would have.  Petunia????   Vernon -- only if Petunia went, and then only to enjoy himself getting all upset and purple faced.

 

Welcome ravenclawind.  Like the looks of the place?

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Yup!

 

I like to think Dudley befriend Hestia while they were on the run, but I think the idea so my wizards in one place would have terrified Dudley. But maybe he was able to overcome his fear and go.

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

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I'm with Jules.  I knew about Ron/Hermione in CoS.  Actually, I pretty much guessed Harry/Ginny in CoS too.  I think that a double wedding would have been best.  That way Ron would be way too preoccupied to be grumpy about Harry/Ginny being in a relationship. 

 

And, I know it would never happen, but I really wish that if they show some kind of wedding scene at the end (near end) of the movie, that they would have the Dursleys there, looking all uncomfortable in the midst of all those wizards and witches.  That would just make the end sooo much better!  I can dream.

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

KatN-E wrote, in part....

And, I know it would never happen, but I really wish that if they show some kind of wedding scene at the end (near end) of the movie, that they would have the Dursleys there, looking all uncomfortable in the midst of all those wizards and witches.  That would just make the end sooo much better!  I can dream.

 

Well, filming's over for the movie, but we can always do it ourselves....

 

I suggest:

 

The brides, escorted by Dr. Granger and Mr. Weasley, etc., come down the Grand Staircase, where the guests await them.

 

E'one is immediately, magically, seated in the Great Hall, which has been decorated by Prof Flitwick.

 

Dumbledore presides.

 

Neville and Fred & George are best men.

 

Fawkes sings,

 

The happy couples leave under an arch of wands emitting showers of stars.

 

The guests throw magic flower petals which transform into butterflies.

 

WHAT ELSE???????

 

 

 

 

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

Sorry Jules 934, but didn't Fred and Dumbledore die? unless Harry brought them back with the stone.

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Re: Who got married first? Ginny and Harry or Ron and Hermione?

I would think Harry and Ginny because they got in more of a relationship before Ron and Hermione even though I'm pretty sure they've liked each other all along.