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Mother vs Judge, Family and Legal Issues
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03-09-2008 04:12 PM
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03-09-2008 04:22 PM
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03-10-2008 10:47 AM
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03-10-2008 11:10 AM
reddoglady wrote:I don't think Alex should be on the case -- I can't imagine how she can ever remove herself from the events even though she thinks that she can --
I agree, how can you in a case like this. I think when these kinds of horrible things happen, you need a judge from another town altogether. Probably the trial should be moved to another town actually, cause think of the jury too. If a judge living there can't handle it, how can the average citizen in the town.
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03-10-2008 12:27 PM
You are so right, Vivian. A judge should be appointed that is not in the same vincinity. So he or she can not be touched by knowing the victims or the accuser of the crime.
vivico1 wrote:
reddoglady wrote:I don't think Alex should be on the case -- I can't imagine how she can ever remove herself from the events even though she thinks that she can --
I agree, how can you in a case like this. I think when these kinds of horrible things happen, you need a judge from another town altogether. Probably the trial should be moved to another town actually, cause think of the jury too. If a judge living there can't handle it, how can the average citizen in the town.
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03-10-2008 05:55 PM
kiakar wrote:You are so right, Vivian. A judge should be appointed that is not in the same vincinity. So he or she can not be touched by knowing the victims or the accuser of the crime.
vivico1 wrote:
reddoglady wrote:I don't think Alex should be on the case -- I can't imagine how she can ever remove herself from the events even though she thinks that she can --
I agree, how can you in a case like this. I think when these kinds of horrible things happen, you need a judge from another town altogether. Probably the trial should be moved to another town actually, cause think of the jury too. If a judge living there can't handle it, how can the average citizen in the town.
So why do you guys think, with Josie at home, and knowing what Josie went through, that Alex would even consider or want this case? Is it maybe lack of parenting skills on her part, or maybe something deeper in her, the desire for what this kind of case could mean for her without even thinking about the affects on her daughter? Why did she want it?
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03-10-2008 08:42 PM
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03-11-2008 11:24 AM
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03-12-2008 02:20 AM
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03-12-2008 10:27 AM
Wrighty wrote:I don't think she should be the judge in this case either. Technically she can because her daughter wasn't a victim of the actual shooting but she is still too close to all that has happened. In small towns, lawyers and judges often know people that come through the legal system. I think that is part of her thinking but she is being too technical about it. She's not thinking about all of the effects from this, only the specific people who were shot. She was a very good lawyer and now she is a very good judge. She is known for being fair. I get the impression that she thinks she can keep this professional and not let her emotions get involved. How is that possible? I also think that since her father was a judge before her she pushes herself to be better. The law was their only real connection and I think she works harder because she always wanted his approval. That was the best way to get it and that desire drives her. So does the need to show Logan Rourke (Josie's father from their affair) that she didn't need him. She has moved higher up the ladder and got the same job he was trying for. She works so hard at being a judge that she doesn't include the fact that she's a mother. She can't ignore that fact because that's also part of who she is. This case is too complicated and too close to home.
I think you are very right on all accounts. I forgot about the men in her life, father and lover. The judge didnt want to be judged by them too. I am wondering how both of those two relationships play into her relationship with Josie too.
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03-12-2008 12:26 PM
vivico1 wrote:
I think you are very right on all accounts. I forgot about the men in her life, father and lover. The judge didnt want to be judged by them too. I am wondering how both of those two relationships play into her relationship with Josie too.I wonder how deep it goes too. She wasn't expecting to get pregnant and then she wasn't going to keep the baby. I think it's impressive how much she has accomplished and how hard she works especially as a single parent. Her daughter has everything she needs financially but Alex doesn't seem as confident as a mother as she does in her career. She hasn't had good role models and the two most important men in her life pushed her away so she probably struggles with her own emotional issues. I don't think she's the type that wants to fail at anything but many people have failed her and that has to affect her as a mother.