I have a good steamy list too! It took me a while to figure out what the whole lendme thing is, basically we swap emails and add each other. On your Nook you will see a an app that says NOOKFRIENDS, after you add however many people you want to add you go to that app and click on the LENDME tab and then you choose whatever books you want to borrow; click borrow. After the book is lent to you you have 7 days to accept it and after you do then you have 14 days to read it before it is returned. What I like to do is stagger my acceptance of the books so it gives me more time to read them. Also, a little cheat I've learned is turning off my internet connection on my nook/phone/laptop - whatever I'm using to read on at the time - before I open the nook app. I do that when I know the book should have been returned the day before but I haven't had a chance to read it. Since it was downloaded onto the harddrive it will still be there as long as the internet isnt on to tell it to take it back. 
Anyway, LENDME works great and I've actually become friends with some people and sometimes when a series is expensive we will split up buying the books and lending them. Oh also, since you can only lend a book once I try to lend a whole series to one person instead of spitting it up, I wouldnt want to borrow a book 1 of 5 from someone for them to lend out 2-5 to a bunch of other people. Try it out, you can add me, I have lots of purchased books, my email is desireestarr3@yahoo.com
