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Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

If Romeo and Juliet had survived past their honeymoon, do you think their marrige would have lasted?

 

On one hand, Romeo's approach to love is pretty shallow. At the beginning of the play, he's moping around, pining away because Roseline had rejected him. Then, within 24 hours, he sees Juliet, and suddenly, he completely forgets the previous love of his life. Poor Rosie is never mentioned again. I can just see him running away with some cutie he met in the marketplace, after he grows bored with Juliet.

 

On the other hand, there's a lot of character development in the play. There's a basis for saying that Romeo matures a bit by the end.

 

On yet another hand (that makes three hands; I'll have to borrow one of yours), we're still talking about two hormonal teenagers. People that age tend to fall in and out of lust with incredible speed. One day it's True Love(TM), the next it's "What did I ever see in that creep?"

 

Your thoughts?

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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

I'd give them 6 months, tops.
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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?


Raven_Lunatic wrote:

 

If Romeo and Juliet had survived past their honeymoon, do you think their marriage would have lasted?

 


Great question! 

 

I'd LIKE to think it would have--if you believe in true love, of course.  There are examples in my own life of people I know who met very young and stayed married for 60+ years.  On the other hand, it is certainly arguable that the odds are against a young couple staying together that long.  Statistically speaking, it's better to wait!  :smileywink:

 

One could argue that Romeo was "fickle" because he had not yet met his "true love," Juliet.  Or it could be, like you say, he would move on once again when the novelty of winning Juliet wore off.  I think, from the play, we may argue that they were 'meant' to be together, partly because of the way they brought the two families together.

 

What do others of you think? 

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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

I've never really thought about it before.  According to the Prologue, they are destined for their particular fate:

 

Two households, both alike in dignity

(In fair Verona, where we lay our scene),

From ancient grudge break to new mutiny,

Where civil blood makes civil hands unclean.

From forth the fatal loins of these two foes

A pair of star-crossed lovers take their life,

Whose misadventured piteous overthrows

Doth with their death bury their parents' strife.

The fearful passage of their death-marked love

And the continuance of their parents' rage,

Which, but their childrens' end, naught could remove,

Is now the two hours' traffic of our stage -

The which, if you with patient ears attend,

What here shall miss, our toil shall strive to mend.

 

So if we take Shakespeare's drift, Romeo and Juliet are destined to have a violent, youthful passion and die before they even make it to a honeymoon.


ConnieK wrote:


Raven_Lunatic wrote:

 

If Romeo and Juliet had survived past their honeymoon, do you think their marriage would have lasted?

 


Great question! 

 

I'd LIKE to think it would have--if you believe in true love, of course.  There are examples in my own life of people I know who met very young and stayed married for 60+ years.  On the other hand, it is certainly arguable that the odds are against a young couple staying together that long.  Statistically speaking, it's better to wait!  :smileywink:

 

One could argue that Romeo was "fickle" because he had not yet met his "true love," Juliet.  Or it could be, like you say, he would move on once again when the novelty of winning Juliet wore off.  I think, from the play, we may argue that they were 'meant' to be together, partly because of the way they brought the two families together.

 

What do others of you think? 


 

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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

Talk about spoilers!

pedsphleb wrote:

I've never really thought about it before.  According to the Prologue, they are destined for their particular fate:

 

Two households, both alike in dignity

(In fair Verona, where we lay our scene),

From ancient grudge break to new mutiny,

Where civil blood makes civil hands unclean.

From forth the fatal loins of these two foes

A pair of star-crossed lovers take their life,

Whose misadventured piteous overthrows

Doth with their death bury their parents' strife.

The fearful passage of their death-marked love

And the continuance of their parents' rage,

Which, but their childrens' end, naught could remove,

Is now the two hours' traffic of our stage -

The which, if you with patient ears attend,

What here shall miss, our toil shall strive to mend.

 

So if we take Shakespeare's drift, Romeo and Juliet are destined to have a violent, youthful passion and die before they even make it to a honeymoon.



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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

What actually held Romeo & Juliet together besides LOVE?

 

Maybe I'm being cynical by saying this, but love is not strong enough to hold a marriage. So I doubt they would've lasted more than a year.

 


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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

[ Edited ]

I thought this was a cute article especially as regards Raven's question. (I like the picture at the top of the article myself :smileyhappy: )

Message Edited by pedsphleb on 04-12-2009 12:11 AM
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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?


pedsphleb wrote:

I thought this was a cute article especially as regards Raven's question. (I like the picture at the top of the article myself :smileyhappy: )


Ha.  It's a good point that cell phones would change stories of all kinds.  Instant communication will likely play a role in new stories as well.  It will be interesting to see how that works out.

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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

Yes, they would have lasted.
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krakow wrote:
Yes, they would have lasted.

 

You sound confident of that, krakow.  What makes you think so?
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Re: Romeo and Juliet- would their marriage have worked?

I think their marriage would have worked because of their love. As soon as Romeo heard that Juliet had "died" he immediately went to the apothecary so he could kill himself and be with Juliet. His love for her was so strong that he couldn't even imagine himself without her. The same was with Juliet. She was determined to kill herself so she wouldn't have to marry Paris for she didn't love him. She loved Romeo with her entire being. I would like to hope they have lasted if they had lived.
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